4 Replies to “Ohio Appellate Decision Sends Working Moms Back to the 1950s”

  1. This situation probably would rise to the level of “discrimination” in another court, such as here in California. But, as a woman, I am wondering if the same outrage would be manifested if the comment would have been made to a single dad with three kids who would also be leaving his boss in the lurch if he had to call in absent for some reason. Everyone assumes that the supervisor would NEVER have said it to a man, “I don’t think you should apply for this position because you’re a single father,” but how do we know that’s true? The issue was not the woman’s gender. It was the fact that she has the sole responsiblity for the health and well-being of three young children, and there would likely be times when she couldn’t come to work because she had to care for her kids. Maybe she had access to great childcare options, which would make it a moot point. And we can argue whether it was fair for her to end up as a single parent with all that on her shoulders. But it’s a logical train of thought to wonder if an employee in that situation would be able to consistently perform their work. It would be true for a man or a woman. We like to jump to women’s defense and claim discrimination when they are faced with this kind of decision, but in reality, all the supervisor said was that her situation might cause him some headaches that he preferred not to have. He was a jerk, certainly, if he expressed it that way, but as an employer it’s a problem he does have to face. Employees’ private situations can have an effect on the operation of a business. We have gone very far down the road of claiming “discrimination” every time we have to deal with realities in our lives that mean we may not be eligible to receive what we want. Seeing ourselves as “victims” instead of trying to find creative ways to maximize our abilities and opportunities seems to weaken women, instead of empowering them. We keep lowering the bar for what it means to be “discriminated against.”

  2. This situation probably would rise to the level of “discrimination” in another court, such as here in California. But, as a woman, I am wondering if the same outrage would be manifested if the comment would have been made to a single dad with three kids who would also be leaving his boss in the lurch if he had to call in absent for some reason. Everyone assumes that the supervisor would NEVER have said it to a man, “I don’t think you should apply for this position because you’re a single father,” but how do we know that’s true? The issue was not the woman’s gender. It was the fact that she has the sole responsiblity for the health and well-being of three young children, and there would likely be times when she couldn’t come to work because she had to care for her kids. Maybe she had access to great childcare options, which would make it a moot point. And we can argue whether it was fair for her to end up as a single parent with all that on her shoulders. But it’s a logical train of thought to wonder if an employee in that situation would be able to consistently perform their work. It would be true for a man or a woman. We like to jump to women’s defense and claim discrimination when they are faced with this kind of decision, but in reality, all the supervisor said was that her situation might cause him some headaches that he preferred not to have. He was a jerk, certainly, if he expressed it that way, but as an employer it’s a problem he does have to face. Employees’ private situations can have an effect on the operation of a business. We have gone very far down the road of claiming “discrimination” every time we have to deal with realities in our lives that mean we may not be eligible to receive what we want. Seeing ourselves as “victims” instead of trying to find creative ways to maximize our abilities and opportunities seems to weaken women, instead of empowering them. We keep lowering the bar for what it means to be “discriminated against.”

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