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Posted on August 2, 2016July 25, 2018

A Humane Approach to Layoffs

Our life experiences dictate our worldview. Such is the case with my opinion on the corporate layoff, as it has recently hit very close to home.

For the sake of anonymity, I’ll speak in hypotheticals.

An employee (I’ll call her “Jane”) has worked for Company X for nearly a decade over two different tenures. By all accounts, Jane is a good employee and well-regarded by her peers. Company X recently agreed to acquire Company Y, which, unfortunately, has made Jane’s position redundant. As a result, Company X decides to eliminate Jane’s position. So far, so normal.

Here, however, is where the story takes a turn. Company X, for lack of better description, sandbags Jane. It made the decision to eliminate her position in March, yet doesn’t communicate it to her until May, when it calls her into a conference room, tells her she has been laid off, and that it’s her last day of employment. Jane, shell-shocked, packs her office, takes her severance agreement and leaves. Jane later discovers that the negative and unwarranted performance review she received in April was part of a plan to support Company X’s decision to include her in the May layoff.

Employers, we need to approach layoffs differently. Employees caught in the net of a corporate downsizing aren’t necessarily bad employees. More often than not, they are victims of circumstance. Yet, too often we treat them like hardened criminals. I know of employers that perp-walk the recently laid off out of the building with armed escorts. What message does this send to the laid-off employee and to the employees left behind? That we don’t think of you as a person, but as a cog in the machine, which we likely don’t trust. This mindset needs to change.

What happened to treating employees with dignity, fairness and respect? Just because we are laying people off doesn’t mean that we should stop exhibiting these values.

How can we treat employees more like human beings in handling layoffs? Let me offer four suggestions.

  1. Overcommunicate with all of your employees. Be open and honest in why your employees are losing their jobs. Explain how the layoff will affect them, including the timing of the layoff and, for those losing their jobs, the severance benefits available. Keeping your employees informed will help squelch the rumor mill, which will undermine everything you are otherwise trying to accomplish.
  2. Treat everyone equitably. As best as possible, use objective criteria to determine who stays and who goes. Employer X used negative subjective criteria in Jane’s performance review to justify including her in the layoff. Jane did not perceive those subjective criticisms as warranted, especially when she was an objectively high performer, and no one had ever before similarly criticized her for the reasons expressed in her negative review. The use of these subjective criteria left Jane with the (not unreasonable) belief that Company X purposely lowballed her review to justify her inclusion in the layoff. This gamesmanship not only reflects poorly on your organization, but it could also lead to pretextual challenges to your decision-making in later discrimination lawsuits.
  3. Help people find jobs. Consider laid-off employees for other opportunities within your company. Provide written job references that will help them land on their feet. Offer outplacement that will assist them in writing effective résumés and networking to find new employment. And, for goodness sake, if you (practically) promise a specific position to a laid-off worker, don’t later give it to someone else. That’s just plain mean.
  4. Don’t toss people out onto the street. When someone loses a job, time is their best asset. Provide them as much as you can afford. If Company X knew in March that it would have to lay off Jane (an otherwise quality, longstanding employee with good character) in May, what was the harm in telling her in March? It would have provided her two extra months to find another job, and it wouldn’t have left Jane with such a bad feeling about Company X. Companies claim concerns about confidential information excuse such (mis)behavior. If that is a legitimate concern for a specific employee, you might be justified in treating that employee differently. Otherwise, you have no reason to treat a laid-off employee like a criminal. Even the federal Worker Adjustment and Retraining Notification, or WARN, Act provides 60 days’ notice before a mass layoff. You can simultaneously protect your information and treat people humanely.

The bottom line? Treat your employees like human beings throughout the layoff process, and everyone will be better as a result.

What happened to treating employees with dignity, fairness and respect? Just because we are laying people off doesn’t mean that we should stop exhibiting these values.

Jon Hyman is a partner at Meyers, Roman, Friedberg & Lewis in Cleveland. To comment, email editors@workforce.com. Follow Hyman’s blog at Workforce.com/PracticalEmployer.

Posted on August 28, 2014June 29, 2023

Why Treating Others With ‘Respect and Dignity’ Doesn’t Work

WF_WebSite_BlogHeaders-12My last post, “Why Cultural Sensitivity Training Is Ineffective and Insensitive,” got more attention on social media than my typical Diversity Executive posts. One of the feedback themes was “How about treating everyone with respect and dignity?” It troubles me that such comments all came from D&I or intercultural professionals. We practitioners have a responsibility to develop a more sophisticated understanding of the concepts of our field than the public and our clients. Therefore, I will explain why the admonishment to “treat everyone with respect and dignity” is well-intended but limited, old thinking that’s even disrespectful and dangerous.

Everyone knows we’re supposed to treat everyone with respect and dignity.If this were all we needed, we wouldn’t have so many problems with people not feeling, or being, respected in our workplaces and societies at large. If you believe treating everyone with respect and dignity is a solution to our D&I (and human) problems, what evidence do you have that lack of respect is a cause of those problems? How many people have you met who do not have this value or intention? Are you 100 percent sure that was the cause of their unpleasant behavior? Does Donald Sterling not have this value? Do the white police officers in Ferguson, Missouri, not have this value? How about straight people? Men? Immigrants? Are you sure?

Personally, I’ve been in some pretty rough situations and I can’t be certain the entirety of our D&I problems can all be traced to the maybe five fearful, damaged people I’ve met in my life who might fall into that category.

Besides, values and intentions aren’t the problem — behavior is. Thus, treating everyone with respect and dignity doesn’t get at the root of the problem. I’ve come to three conclusions about the problem.

1. We don’t always know how to behave to comes across as respectful to others.Because what does respect look like? Dignity? This isn’t as simple as it sounds, and good intentions aren’t enough. This is where the Platinum Rule (do unto others as they would have done unto them) is far more effective than the Golden Rule. The Golden Rule works to teach basic empathy in a community where people are generally similar. That is no longer our reality, and the good intentions of the Golden Rule can have devastating negative impacts.

One of my main examples is from a tension-wrought neighborhood of the 1990s of my native Los Angeles, where an older female Korean shopkeeper gave her young male African-American customer his change by not touching him and pushing the coins across the counter. This was the most respectful way to interact with a customer in her cultural context, but this came across as deeply insulting to him, sparking community outrage and violence.

Workplace training programs that focus on respect, dignity and sensitivity weaken the more powerful, inspirational, evidence-based truth that should be the goal of all diversity and inclusiveness efforts: D&I gets us better results in what matters. Such programs are a lost opportunity and contribute to the “eye-roll” factor among our clients because this approach implies that people are childish or bad and don’t know or believe in the basic human value of treating others with respect. They don’t need a sermon or finger-wagging. They need concrete information about effective behaviors, help understanding why those behaviors are effective, opportunities to practice new behaviors and tools to develop ongoing self-awareness and the ability to be nimble and flexible with whatever shows up in their interactions.

2. We don’t listen or respond effectively to feedback (direct or indirect) saying that we are not coming across as respectful.When we get this feedback, we usually react defensively, trying to justify our good intentions and why the other person shouldn’t feel that way. We respond that they should feel grateful. We might imply they’re imagining things or exaggerating. We don’t believe that their experience is real, and patronize them by categorizing their reality as perception and ours as fact. Ferguson is just one more example of the myriad ways the African-American community has been giving the white, European-American community feedback about how disrespectful our behavior is, and most of us have yet to truly hear, believe their experience is real and change our behavior.

3. When a human’s reptilian “downstairs brain” is triggered by a perceived threat, our brain’s higher functions literally go offline, and we often behave in a way that is neither respectful of others, nor an expression of our best selves.Knowing such behavior isn’t OK doesn’t keep us from doing it. Reminding us we’re supposed to be more respectful doesn’t help. What helps is developing emotional intelligence and self management skills. What can also help is holding each other fiercely accountable and co-creating cultures — in the workplace and beyond — where clearly defined disrespectful behaviors are not tolerated.

Let’s evolve the conversation about respect to a more effective, inclusive — respectful! — level and assume that people already know they are supposed to treat each other with respect and dignity. Instead, let’s get curious about why it’s not happening. Let’s focus on improving our behavior in ways that make a real difference by developing our communication skills, improving our ability to hear and respond to feedback, honing our emotional self management and holding each other accountable.


 

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