I once had two employees whose working relationship blossomed into a workplace romance.
At first it was an all-out lovefest; footsies under the table during staff meetings, goo-goo eyes at each other at lunch ⌠ainât love grand? It sure was; until it wasnât.
Their chocolate kisses turned sour. Tart words and icy glares soon took a toll on the staff, who soon asked if I would help end the hostilities. I did; and it didnât go particularly well.
It was clear that there was no mediating this one. Back and forth they went with terse accusations. Exasperated, I finally blurted: âStop it; just, stop it.â
I was reminded of this nasty affair when late last year newly elected President Donald Trump was confronted by â60 Minutesâ reporter Lesley Stahlâs question regarding his supportersâ harassment of Latinos and Muslims. Trumpâs response: âAnd I say, âStop it.â If it â if it helps, I will say this, and I will say right to the cameras: âStop it.â â
Iâll admit, Trumpâs statement had conviction â arguably more than mine did. While his âstop itâ may temporarily soothe an edgy nation and workplaces teeming with potential to boil over in bias, thereâs another two-word phrase Trump is known for that strikes fear into every workerâs heart. âYouâre firedâ of course is the catchphrase from his reality TV show, âThe Apprentice.â But which two-word phrase â a more reassuring âstop itâ or brusque âyouâre firedâ â will define the man running our country for the next four years?
Like Trump, as workplace leaders we must toggle from âstop itâ to âyouâre fired.â Itâs also on us to deliver the workplace tone for clarity, set an example of fairness and honesty. Our new president gets no pass on this, either. The initial days and weeks of Trumpâs tenure will provide that roadmap for our nationâs workplaces.
That thereâs a massive shift ahead for our political landscape under Trump is without question. His impact on the workplace however, is less apparent.
Letâs define what we know: The courts and their interpretations of employment law will undergo a massive philosophical shift.
Laws and regulations affecting our lives and jobs, from the Affordable Care Act to H-1B immigration policies to minimum wage laws, parental leave issues and especially organized labor, will come under intense scrutiny. The Family and Medical Leave Act and Fair Labor Standards Act will be under the microscope. Boards and agencies including the NLRB, OSHA, the EEOC and the Department of Labor face substantial overhauls.
That much is clear. What remains hazy is how our CEO-presidentâs provocateur-business leader-outsider persona will influence behavior in workplace corridors and on job sites across America.
When an unknown boss is tapped to lead an organization we check their LinkedIn profile; search for images and background; glean Glassdoor; perhaps even email a friend of a friend who may have a shred of insider knowledge.
Thereâs no need to play cyber-Sherlock Holmes with Trump. If we were in the dark about his leadership skills, abilities and attitudes, two years of campaigning and his time as president-elect are clarifying his management style.
Building a multibillion-dollar real estate empire is impressive. Beyond that remarkable bottom line, what does a peek into his supervisory toolbox reveal? Under organizational skills: withholding subcontractorsâ pay and years of skirting tax laws. Checking the leadership box â a dizzying example of bullying, intimidation and name calling on social media. As a manager ⌠ogling and belittling his beauty pageant contestants and taking âlocker room banterâ to near-obscene levels.
Maybe youâre all about results and the soft stuff doesnât matter. Go ahead and look the other way. But with those qualities, Trump as a CEO looks like a lawsuit and extremely pricey settlement waiting to happen. Itâs also behavior that I find unfit for any leader, let alone the president.
It would be a shame if HR has to play hall monitor rather than work as a strategic business partner during a Trump presidency. Policies will change; managers have learned to handle that. Itâs the toxic attitudes and mounting disrespect for people that present such an ominous challenge during the next four years.
Fortunately, a handful of CEOs and leading employers have already publicly committed to policing their workplaces. President Trump could aid these leadersâ efforts and help curb growing workplace bias by turning his provocative rhetoric into more meaningful dialog with a few more emphatic, heartfelt âstop itâ moments.
In your workplace it may take a âstop itâ to promote cohesion. A âyouâre firedâ could even ease fear and distrust. How that message is conveyed will speak volumes about your leadership skills and the quality of your workplace. In this new era, how you say it is just as important as the message you deliver.
Rick Bell is Workforce’s editorial director. Comment below or email rbell@workforce.com.